I strongly believe that there isn't always a restore harmonious relations with friends or relatives. That is possible we make mistake. However, less people realize that making mistake is human. On the other hand, less people who made mistake want to correct and apologize. The worst, it's hard to forgive the mistake.
I should mention some people are in pain not only because of the manner, but also because of the statement. For example, a husband abuse his wife or seeing red with neighbor.
As we know that every cloud has a silver lining. It means there is the way out of the problem. At least, there are three suggestion for solving the problem, such as:
* First: We must realize that nobody is perfect. That is possible we make mistake because it's human. If someone hurts us, it's better we are silent and said nothing. Blame each other in order to fight and revenge is bad solution.
* Second: We must realize that there isn't anything in anger for us. According to the health adviser is being anger can make blood pressure and heart-attack. We are adult. We have ability to control anger and settle differences without violation or destruction.
* Third: We are certain that God profound love someone who is easy to forgive other people's mistake. If we want being as a someone who is loved by God, we are willing to do it sincerely. Also never forget to apologize when we make mistake.
So, in short all of us are able to forgive and apologize people as well as we realize that peace is beautiful. Then, we are willing to do anything sincerely for God's blessing.
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